父母子女俱乐部第十四届子女教育研讨暨年会

真正的成功：培育能在充满挑战的世界里健康向上的孩子

特邀演讲嘉宾: 宾大医学院儿科教授Kenneth Ginsburg

2017 年10 月14 日 星期六, 12:30 pm – 5:00 pm

Windsor Athletic Club (WAC)

Clarksville Rd, West Windsor Township, NJ 08550

此次讲座将讨论如何激发和培养孩子对学习的热爱而不是对失败的惧怕，以促进他们取得卓越的成就。永远不要忘记，我们养育孩子的目标是让孩子成长为快乐而对社会有贡献的人。讲座讨论促进紧密的家庭关系的沟通方法，让家长能够与孩子有良好的关系，更好的支持到孩子。这意味着学业成绩尽管重要，它也只是衡量成功的标准之一。孩子需要具有情商和社交能力，才可能在家庭和工作中蓬勃发展。他们需要保持和发展他们的创造性和创新潜能，以及内在的韧性。孩子被推得太厉害，就无法发现自己的天赋，并趋于完美主义。完美主义者无法接纳自己，享受不到高成就带来的快乐，事实上这窒息了他们自己的创造性。

Ginsburg 教授将讨论大学录取过程，重点强调引导孩子找到适合自己的教育与学校。讲座的主题是培养能为世界做出独特与巨大贡献的成功孩子。

      宾大医学院儿科教授Kenneth Ginsburg，专长于青少年行为和心理健康， Boys & Girls Clubs of America的韧性专家，曾获多个奖项并出版多部专著，包括在美国儿科学会出版的《Building Resilience in Children and Teens: Giving Kids Roots and Wings》和《Raising Kids to Thrive: Balancing Love With Expectations and Protection With Trust》。他的临诊实践、教学、科研、以及社会活动都围绕着一个统一的主题：通过提高青少年的内在韧性来打造他们的强项。他致力于将研究和临诊中所获知的东西尽可能转化为日常实践中的方法，以便让父母, 专业人士、和社区来培养孩子的韧性。

Conference Agenda

• * 12:30 pm - 01:00 pm Registration and Networking
• * 01:00 pm - 01:15 pm Opening Remarks
• * 01:15 pm - 03:15 pm Keynote Speech
• * 03:15 pm - 03:30 pm Book Signing/Break
• * 03:30 pm - 05:00 pm Fishbowl Forum 青少年实话实说

”青少年实话实说”是每年俱乐部年会的亮点，很受家长及青少年的欢迎。几位年青人将对家长们普遍关心的一些问题分享他们的想法。节目将由北美著名教育专家、本俱乐部总顾问廖冰博士主持。

我们鼓励青少年与他们的父母一起参加本次研讨会, 这样更有助于父母和孩子共同的有效学习和提高。

Fishbowl Forum participants (teenagers and recent graduates):

Emily Wei is a 7th grader at John Adams Middle School in New Jersey. She is a music enthusiast and plays the oboe & the piano. Emily also loves photography, art, volleyball, and loves traveling to different places to experience different cultures. As a daily routine, she likes to read and listens to classical music. In her free time, Emily likes to collect CDs and stuffed animals, especially cats. Emily’s favorite subject in school is math and hopes to work in financial industry one day.

Hanbo Liu is a pianist and singer-songwriter, graduated from the Juilliard School in New York City with a Master Degree in Piano. Hanbo has performed extensively including the United Nations Assembly Hall, Lincoln Center, Carnegie Hall, Hong Kong TVB, China Central TV, and Beijing Olympic Water Cube National Aquatics Center.

Joy Gu is a 9th grader at Marshall high school in Virginia. She enjoys all of her classes and is an active participant in all of them. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, writing, and playing volleyball. She plays volleyball on her high school team and is part of the film club. She currently wants to be a writer, producer, or director for film and television.

Kevin Yu is a 7th grader at Woodrow Willson Middle School in Edison, NJ. He is 12 years old and likes circuiting, computer programming, drawing, taekwondo and cross-country. Kevin started taekwondo training when he was five, and he is now a third degree black belt, helping the teacher instruct younger children in the taekwondo leadership program. He attended the Yinghua in Beijing summer program this year, and says that it was the most inspirational month of his life, and that during this experience, he became a whole different person. He loves the experience and hopes to come back next year as an even better person than when he left.

Marjorie Wang is a recent graduate of New York University Shanghai, where she received a major in Interactive Media Arts, with a focus on virtual and augmented reality. In the past year, she founded intern019, an emerging media art collective, spoke about being a student technical artist at Unite 2017, the largest Unity conference in Asia, and exhibited "The Hell Bank Corporation", an interactive installation at the TongJi Museum.

Merrick Liu is an 8th grader at Pennington School. He is active and social at school and has many friends. He enjoys hanging out with friends. He likes all of his classes but started to take academic grade seriously this semester. In his spare time, he plays soccer, watches youtube, and plays the piano. Soccer is his most favorite activity. He has been on a travel soccer team since he was eight and is the best defender in his team. Currently, he wants to be a professional soccer player or an investor.

Nathan Yu (于亮) is currently a high school junior at The Hun School of Princeton (普林斯顿翰校). After attending the seventh grade at Montgomery, Nathan studied at Beijing New Talent Academy in China (北京新英才学校), where he was an oversea boarding student for two years. Nathan enjoys STEM-related activities, including robotics, biomedical research, and videogames. He also enjoys leisure reading, a cappella singing, and fencing.

Raymond Zhao is a Senior from Upper Dublin Highschool. He is the Troop ASPL of Troop 542, and is currently a member of the Speech and Debate team. He also participated in his TedX talk at Upper Dublin High School. His favorite subjects are English and Social Studies. Also a fan of the Geosciences. Does not like math and other sciences that much. Throughout his life, Raymond has always enjoyed psychology, philosophy, and public speaking.

Seehanah Tang is a freshman at Holmdel High School. She is a member of her school’s cross country team. Last spring semester, Seehanah studied abroad in China at a local school. She plays the flute and piano. She has been with the Bravura Youth Orchestra since 2014 and was on a concert tour in Russia with her orchestra this past summer. In her spare time, Seehanah enjoys reading.

Fishbowl Forum moderators:

Bonnie Liao (廖冰) is the founder of two nonprofit schools and two nonprofit summer programs. She has served as the Board Chair for three years while attempting to establish a mandarin-immersion charter school, PIACS (Princeton International Academy Charter School). She has also served as the director for HXGNY (HuaXia of Greater New York) Chinese School and PKUAA-GNY (Peking University Alumni Association of Greater New York) and general advisor for PCE (Parents & Children Education) Club, a parenting group in New Jersey. Bonnie has been giving EQ Parenting talks and conduct youth leadership training nationwide. Her professional interests are mental & behavioral health for youth and families. A graduate of Peking University, Bonnie has a Ph.D degree in Physics from University of Houston and an MBA in Finance and Managing Information System from Rutgers University.

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English version:

14th Annual Parenting Conference

Authentic Success: Raising Children and Adolescents

Who are Prepared to Thrive in a Challenging World 

Keynote Speaker: Dr. Kenneth Ginsburg

SATURDAY OCTOBER 14, 2017, 12:30 pm – 5:00 pm

Location: Windsor Athletic Club (WAC)

Clarksville Rd, West Windsor Township, NJ 08550

This talk discusses how to foster high achievement in children while instilling a love of learning, rather than a fear of failure. We must never forget that our goal in raising children is to prepare them to be happy and productive adults.  This talk will cover the essentials of communication that foster close family relationships and position parents to be optimally supportive and close with their children. Furthermore, this means that academic performance, while important, is only one measure of success.  Children need the emotional and social intelligence to thrive in the home and workplace.  They need to maintain and develop their creativity and innovative potential as well as their internal resilience.  Children who are pushed too hard do not discover their gift and are driven to perfectionism.  Perfectionists do not find themselves acceptable and don’t experience the joy associated with high performance, and in fact stifle their own creativity.  The college admissions process will be discussed and the importance of guiding each child to find the right educational match will be emphasized. This seminar is about raising successful children who will make their unique and substantial contributions to the world.

About Dr. Kenneth Ginsburg: Kenneth R. Ginsburg, MD, MS Ed, FAAP, is an award winning author and a Professor of Pediatrics at the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine.  Additionally, He serves as the external National Resilience Expert for The Boys and Girls Club of America and works with National Congress of American Indians in its efforts to build resilience in indigenous youths.   His most recent books include, “Building Resilience in Children and Teens: Giving Kids Roots and Wings”, and “Raising Kids to Thrive: Balancing Love with Expectations and Protection with Trust”, both published by The American Academy of Pediatrics. The theme that ties together his clinical practice, teaching, research and advocacy efforts is that of building on the strengths of teenagers by fostering their internal resilience.  He strives to translate the best of what is known from research and practice into practical approaches that parents, professionals and communities can use to build resilience.

Conference Agenda

• * 12:30 pm - 01:00 pm Registration and Networking
• * 01:00 pm - 01:15 pm Opening Remarks
• * 01:15 pm - 03:15 pm Keynote Speech
• * 03:15 pm - 03:30 pm Book Signing/Break
• * 03:30 pm - 05:00 pm Fishbowl Forum 

Registration: Free Admission. Registration is required for admission.

https://ticketspceconference.eventbrite.com

Contact: Nancy Chen  609-759-0868  nancychenteam@gmail.com, Qinghong Dai  908-546-8112 qinghongdai@yahoo.com,  Jingshan Zhang  617-785-4240  zhangjsh@gmail.com,  Ming Xu  732-829-8007 mingxuhomes@yahoo.com,  Lei Xu  617-794-4290, lxu2005@gmail.com, Jianping Xu 315-558-9272 orang3_gu@yahoo.com, Sharon Zhang 848-229-9219 sharonxuan@gmail.com, Min Huang  609-682-0332 minhuang360@yahoo.com