写给女儿的信 (2015.05.08)


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To my darling daughter,

You might think it
  is the hardest time in life
I can only assure you there
   will be more to come 
This doesn't mean life 
   is endless pain
No no no, life is only full of surprises
   of twists, and of turns
Each time you experience pain
   like falling to the bottom of hell
You indeed grow taller
   to be able to see beyond the horizon

You'd say I know it, Mom
   no pain, no gain
But how can I get out of the pain
You still need to live it, Baby
   no shortcut in life, simple

When I was your age back then
   feeling sadness, I was told 
   to resist crying 
Yet I put my face in the palm and
   cried to my heart's content
Then I held my head high
   feeling stronger than ever before
I was also told not to laugh wide, or    Honey you'd get wrinkles
Nonsense I never listened to and  
   aren't you proud of your mom
So I'd say to you today~
Cry your tears, for they are
   the purest spring from
   snow-capped mountains
Laugh your laughters, for they are
    the brightest sunshine through
    deep-dense forests

I'm actually happy for you that
   you are experiencing the pain
And you are expressing how you feel
   figuring what, who, when, why, how
Even feeling dumb and sad
   everyone does from time to time
It doesn't matter, because you 
   are the most beautiful and wonderfully creative daughter I have
YOU are the BEST, because
   YOU ARE YOU

❤️
mom